Rain drops!!! It is very simple to enjoy the rain – either go out and get wet or stay inside the house and enjoy it with old music and a bowl of Maggi.
But people who don’t like these are usually different. In the movies we see that the opposites attract and people who love the rain teach people who dislike the rain to enjoy it.
Here the word ‘choices’ come when we see that the opposites attract. We also see that the cheerful ones have converted the serious ones to their likings – means it’s no longer exact opposite.
It’s not wrong to not enjoy the rain, but it is wrong when we forcefully change the habits or likes an individual has. If we do something from our will or we have habits which we don’t like, then changing these for someone else because automatically, we are doing it for ourselves in the name of a person we like.
But when we say that opposites attract we should accept the person the way he or she is. If we learn that the person has something which he or she may not like, then, as a loved one we should change it, because it’s common to have different choices, but it’s not nice to change someone for our own comfort.
As a couple there should be space for individual likes and dislikes. One should not force someone to change the real person, because it would then be a problem and not a solution.
Sacrifices made for one day or on a special occasion doing something what your partner likes is okay, but not at the cost of forgetting yourself. That’s why the words like choice, preferences, individuality are so powerful and liberal nowadays, because they carry a meaning along with them. Every choice made by an individual is a right of that individual which means a lot.
We are all aware of MCQ “Multiple Choice Questions”. Life gives us lots and lots of MCQs and we are the ones who need to make a wise decision of choosing or ticking the right choice. Usually people see practically and do not see where their happiness lies. Life is lengthy enough to take big fat decisions but when it comes to us we should analyse and make a combo decision keeping also the facts in mind so that nothing could go wrong.
Yes, I agree there are some decisions which may not be easy at first but are proved to be correct at last. So, it needs a lot of thinking and we all should be wise enough to do it. After this, only we can take the correct decision and make the wise and the best choices for life. Only our correct thinking leads us to correct choices and only our correct choices lead us to a healthy and jet free lifestyle.